You will know, you have made it!

It is a beautiful Saturday morning, a non-working day for me, yea for sure~

Reading through all the previous posts in the blog, it just like reading through your life growing process.
Good times and hard times..
Life is too short and time is too limited, we are living in rush everyday.
But sometimes, I like to slower down to have some time to think over again those days, people i met and the things had past.
And just to reconfirm that you are actually on the right path.

When someone around you who surprises of your changes and feels that you have became someone greater.. And you will know, you have made it. =)

给自己的信

Hey ，亲爱的我：

也许最近有些领悟，有些感触，想为以前的自己，现在的自己，还有以后的自己写一封信。

人生苦短。每一个人如此幸运的诞生在这个千变万化，美丽的世界。人生只有一次。如果在有生之年没有好好的去看看这个世界，没有充分地去过每一天，到了最后我想也只剩下遗憾。因此，如果你还有未实现的梦想，还有不曾到过的地方，还有未完成的事；如果你还年轻，还有能力去完成所未完成的一切；那么就勇敢踏出你的步伐，哪怕就那么疯狂地追逐一次。

人生没有多少个十年，不要让青春留白，不要让人生留下遗憾。勇敢地去追梦吧！

双子座的我，对这个世界，对我的人生充满了无数的梦想和期望。有很多地方，很多事是我在有生之年想去实践，想去挑战的。

世界之大，我想去世界的每一个角落，遇见不同的人，体验不同的文化和生活，倾听每一个不同的故事。生存了那么久的地球是个很美丽的星球。大海何其奥妙，高山如此壮丽，还有很多稀奇古怪，让人叹为观止的自然奇景。

我想到苏格兰的高山和悬崖，到那个世界称之的“海角天涯”，亲听那落寞凄凉的故事。

我想成为一名执照承认的潜水员，到世界上每一个美丽的岛屿，探索海底世界的奥秘。

我想去每一个美丽的海滩，和大自然拥抱。

我想成为一个成功的专业人士，职场上的女强人，有自己舒适的车子和房子。然后，我想要遇见一个非你莫属的真命天子，幸福地步入礼堂，组织一个美满的家庭。

人生就那短短几十年，如果真的能完成哪怕只是那一半的梦想，我想，那样对于我而言已经不枉来这世界走一回。人的一生是由一个梦想连接着另一个梦想而继续前进的。那你呢？

他和他

从前，从前，有两个他 －－ 他A和他B。

他A聪明迷人。
他B风趣稳重。

他A温柔浪漫，喜欢说甜言蜜语。
他B幽默又善解人意，喜欢在不经意时给你一个关心问候。

和他A在一起时，很多时候都必须小心翼翼，深怕做了错事，说了不应该说的话。
和他B在一起时，很轻松自在，不需担心做的事、说的话，只要做回自己就行。

和他A在一起，他会告诉你他的人生和小秘密。
和他B在一起，他会和你分享他的你的生活点滴和生活乐趣。

和他A在一起时，他会不经意地握你的手，拥抱你。
和他B在一起时，他会时时刻刻关心你是否吃饱，渴了，冷了，累了。

他A经常说一些让人不是很理解或赞同地道理。
他B经常能说一些让我深信不疑的道理，并铭记于心。

他A和他B都经常忙于工作。

和他A在一起时，如果他工作很累，和他吃饭就只是为了吃饭而吃饭。
和他B在一起时，就算他工作很累，他也绝无怨言，特地抽空和你开心地用餐。

他A很有主见，经常帮你决定很多琐事。
他B喜欢迁就于你，以你为中心地去思考和决定很多事。

他A和他B的身边都围绕了很多花蝴蝶。

他A会经常和你讨论身边女生向他表白的趣事。
他B会经常提醒你，他还是单身。

他A曾经在我的心里划上了一道很深的伤口，让我差点彻底崩溃。
他B在我最伤心绝望的时候出现，抚平了我的伤口。

这样的他A和他B，这样的剧情，就好比高圆圆的［单身男女］一样，我选择了脚踏实地，成熟朴实的他B。。。

那你呢？

最幸福的事

当人到了一个年龄，

人生走到了某个阶段，

最幸福的事莫过于两个相知相惜的心，手牵着手走进礼堂，

山盟海誓，共创未来的梦。

当身边的朋友，一个接一个的步入人生的另一个里程碑，

看着他们幸福的笑容，

我想，这就是他们共同拥有的，最幸福的事。。

婚姻，对于我而言，

似乎很遥远，遥不可及，

但又好像经常在我的身边打转。

有人说，婚姻完整了人生。

没有婚姻的人生就不美满吗？

有人说，我是一个单身主义者。

但是，其实，在我小小的内心深处，

一个完整，幸福，美满的婚姻也是我人生的停靠站。

小小的心灵，真心期待一个白马王子的出现，

带领我踏足世界每一个角落，

分享他的春夏秋冬，海阔天空，

告诉我宇宙，星星，月亮和太阳的故事，

领略人生的酸甜苦辣。

“执子之手，偕老白头”

这八个字意义深远，神圣非凡。

为人生最幸福的事加油！^__^

Keep On Fighting!

I know, something is different right now..

People, environment, work... everything surrounding me is no longer the same.

I can feel it from every single tiny signal at every corners..

I know, I have to change too.

Like the advise from a senior of mine,

We shall always look forward, move forward.

I think I am in the process of changing..

Starting from my attitude..

And I have set a new principal for myself.

1) Never lose the confident when everyone out there turns you down

2) Never forget the principal of life whenever you trying to attain your motives

3) Never be influenced by what other people trying to tell you, just believe in what you see and basically yourself

4) Never let the fame and authority blinded your mind, you are at the age of learning, do what you suppose to do

5) Prove the world that they are wrong by showing the facts not saying

6) Be humble, friendly, helpful, patience, kind-hearted

7) Always calm down the mind and heart, be cheerful, motivated and energetic to face every challenge everyday

Keep on fighting, Angeline! Jiayou jiayou!!

Never Say Never

Well, we all human beings..

Sometimes, something that could really bring us down for a while.

No matter how strong your heart and your mind could be,

it just beat you down unconsciously.

Human, sometimes, is too weak to be defeated by other people words.

We are too easy to be influenced by others, and we just couldn't help it.

Sooner or later, we lost ourselves, lost the direction, and lost our dreams.

And yet, we still couldn't find the way out.

Human, do you know the meaning of life?

Everyone could be somebody, if you really wanna be one.

Words could be the most powerful weapon, but your faith is stronger.

Sometimes, people just couldn't see the real you,

but only you could show them how best you are.

Those who always shout how good they are are those who are empty inside.

Your effort and your hardwork are never a waste.

Even though it is not appreciated by some people,

but there's always someone out there who are so grateful to have you with them.

Never lose your pride and confident, even people is doubting your capability.

Because you can prove them wrong and shut their mouth without using a single weapon.

Never devalue yourself when other people does.

Because they are just the fool who can't see how precious you are.

Never defeat by other people words, even though the whole word turns you down.

Because one day, they gonna regret to what they have said to you.

Always remember,

you own your own life.

No one should live their lives for others.

And no one could defeat you, except you yourself.

Cheers!

We just can't please everyone..

It's so true that we can't please everyone in every condition.

Sometime I wonder,

why people just can't be more considering and trying to put themselves into other people shoes??

If they did, things could be more simple.

In the same situation, I was trying to think as I was he/she and I found out that I could truly understand hows the feeling of the opponent. When I did so, the issue or problem is not as critical as it was thought initially.

Sometime i am feeling sad,

because when I look back the past and how tolerance I could be to the rest..

Unfortunately, the return from the beneficiary is very disappointing.

No matter what I have did for them, all the goodwill becomes a "MUST" and it is not be appreciated.

Even so, I am still holding strongly to my principal.

“人不为我，我为人人”..

It's just that my tolerance has been set a limit.

After so many considering and tolerance, I will live for myself just for once.

So, my dear friend,

if you read this, please think and try to see and feel everyone and everything around you with your heart. I am sure you will have different thought and point of view when looking at the same situation or issue.

No one in this world is owing anyone, and no one should live their life for someone.

Because, we own our own life!

Cheers!